Welcome to Meeting #1084 — Open House! Tonight's theme — "Live with AI · 与AI共生活" — explored how artificial intelligence is reshaping our daily lives, work, and relationships. Toastmaster Hunter opened with a powerful question: "Do you use AI?" As hands raised across the room, he reminded us that AI is not just a tool — it can be our partner. Tonight featured lively debates, a humor-packed prepared speech, and Warren's workshop on the AI tool "Lobster," making this Open House a memorable showcase of GC's unique blend of English practice and AI empowerment.
| Role | Member |
|---|---|
| 🎤 President | Sarah FENG |
| 🎙️ Toastmaster | Hunter TU |
| 👋 VPM / Guest Intro | Lei WANG |
| 📋 General Evaluator | Bing LIU DTM |
| ⏱️ Timer | Frank |
| 🔴 Ah-Counter | Eric |
| 📖 WordSmith | Nina |
| 🎯 Table Topics Master | Julie GUAN |
| 📝 TT Evaluator 1 | Cindy WANG |
| 📝 TT Evaluator 2 | Ano WANG |
| 🎤 Prepared Speaker | Bella CHEN |
| 🛠️ Workshop Speaker | Warren YUE |
| 📝 Speech Evaluator | Bai Yu Xun |
| 📢 General Evaluator Report | Bing LIU |
Nina's Introduction: "AI has changed our life. It doesn't rule our life, it just empowers our creativity. It doesn't make us lose jobs, instead it empowers our working efficiency."
🎯 Opening: Hunter asked the audience: "Do you use AI? Please raise your hand." With hands up across the room, he set the stage: "AI lives with us and we live with AI too. You can see AI everywhere — ChatGPT, OpenClaw... It changed how we work, how we learn, how we study, and how we communicate."
"Today we will just talk about AI — it's not just a tool, it can also be our partner, maybe in work or life. Today we deal with how AI shapes us and how AI empowers us."
🌟 Emily: From Jinan, Shandong. In Beijing for 12 years, focused on investment, computing power, and new energy industry. "I came here to improve my English communication and coordination skills, and also to make new friends."
🌟 Helen: Works in finance at a commercial real estate company in Beijing. "I want to practice my English, improve my skills, broaden my insight and views. If I make any mistakes, please feel free to correct me."
🌟 Eric: Second time visiting GC, member of another club. "I came this time because I miss all of you. You are all very good people, and each time I can learn so much knowledge."
🌟 Jerry: (中文分享)对 AI 主题感兴趣,之前在上海的头马俱乐部参加过,因工作调动中断许久。"Glad to be here again. I'm so interested in the AI topic, I'm sure I can learn a lot."
🌟 Frank: 对岳帆发的 AI 工具感兴趣,曾在其他头马俱乐部活跃。"I wonder why there are so many finance guys here."
Bing introduced the evaluation team, noting the importance of feedback for growth: "Evaluation is just like the backbone of a person. If you want to grow up quickly, you must get feedback quickly."
⏱️ Frank (Timer): Explained the timing rules with clarity — green card means time left, yellow means 30 seconds, red means stop. For longer speeches: two minutes, one minute, and stop.
🔴 Eric (Ah-Counter): First time as Ah-counter. "My responsibility is to record everyone's filler words like 'ah', 'well', 'yeah', 'you know'. I will try my best to record these words and help all of you improve your speaking."
📖 Nina (WordSmith): Introduced the word EMPOWER. "AI has changed our life. It doesn't rule our life, it just empowers our creativity. It doesn't make us lose jobs, instead it empowers our working efficiency. I encourage you to use this word as much as possible."
🎯 Session Design: Julie opened with a thought-provoking perspective: "We see AI getting smarter, faster and more powerful every single day. Sometimes we get worried that we might be left behind. But in my perspective, AI will never replace human beings — it is just a tool that will help us work more efficiently and live more comfortably."
🗣️ Speaker 1 — Helen & Frank (Debate): A fascinating impromptu debate! Helen argued AI makes life more convenient — "With AI, I can do more valuable work; for repetitive tasks, AI helps." Frank challenged back: "But people become lazy! Without AI, your husband would work with you." The debate evolved from housework to children's education, with Helen concluding: "Everything has two sides, like a double-edged sword." Frank countered: "Human beings are weak — they always tend to use the bad side of the sword."
🗣️ Speaker 2 — Eric: Shared how AI's voice-to-text technology has changed his workflow. "Our thinking speed is much faster than our typing speed. Thanks to AI, we can more freely express our ideas to friends and to ourselves." He noted that speech bandwidth is greater than keyboard bandwidth, liberating personal expression.
🗣️ Speaker 3 — Emily: Spoke about what AI cannot replace — innovation and management. "AI is based on the data we provide; it can produce structured content but cannot truly innovate." She also noted that management is fundamentally a human power over AI.
🗣️ Speaker 4 — Bella: Explored the concept of "cyber transcendence" (赛博超越). "As our physical bodies age, I'm considering uploading my brain, knowledge, thoughts, and consciousness to the cloud. I don't care about the eternal life of the physical body — it's just a container." But she also expressed concern: "There will be no privacy — my mind and thoughts, everyone will know."
🗣️ Speaker 5 — Jerry: (中文分享)坦诚分享了数据安全和隐私顾虑。"我最近把 AI 当成心理咨询师,有困惑跟 AI 说,情绪价值很大。但我很担心隐私被发现,用完后就退账号。" 他还提到,如果本地部署龙虾可以解决隐私问题。
🗣️ Speaker 6 — Hunter: Passionately argued that AI cannot replace human passion. "I'm a teacher. AI cannot replace me because I have passion — I can light my kids, make them feel my passion and find their dreams. AI is just a tool, like a phone, a car. It cannot replace our experience."
"AI can do many things, but it cannot be you. It has no life experience, no personality. Progress may be created by AI and technology, but meaning is always given by humans."
— Julie's closing summary
Cindy evaluated the odd-numbered speakers. She praised Helen & Frank's debate as "a very interesting and engaging debate, like watching a fencing game." She identified three key debate techniques they demonstrated: (1) 抓住对方漏洞 — seize the opponent's loophole and keep attacking; (2) opening new points when unable to defend; (3) shifting dimensions — Frank moved from Helen's practical logic to the human perspective of laziness, which was "a very good trick."
For Emily, Cindy encouraged her to use Chinese for difficult keywords next time, and praised her bravery on the surprise call. For Jerry, she switched to Chinese to ensure her feedback was well received, praising his personal story about AI privacy and the humor he added. She also adapted to speak Chinese for Jerry's evaluation, which Bing noted as excellent on-the-spot adjustment.
Anna (Ano) evaluated the even-numbered speakers. She thanked Julie for creating questions very relevant to the topic with good transitions. Her suggestion: give some introduction before each question. For Eric, she praised his clear structure (beginning → two examples → conclusion) with vivid examples of voice-to-text and messaging. For Bella, she noted deep philosophical thinking about the physical body and cyber transcendence — "You are a deep thinker. One suggestion: use the thinking time next time." For Hunter, she was highly impressed: "You are a model TT speaker. Your voice, gesture, content, and passion can influence the audience — and me."
🎯 Key Message: Humor isn't planned — it's caught. The funniest people aren't joke-tellers; they are listeners who notice the fine line between what you said and what you meant.
📖 Opening Joke: "Which music are blondes most scared of? Pop music — because they're afraid of being popped!" Bella set the tone: "This is the level of humor you are getting today."
📖 Main Story: Half a year ago at a Toastmasters meeting in Vancouver, Canada, the TT Master asked a difficult philosophical question and called up Bella and a guy named Frank. Both went blank. Frank looked at Bella, smiled sweetly, and said: "Ladies first."
"Ladies first — it sounds respectful, very smooth. But honestly guys, it's a trap, a beautifully wrapped trap. I had fallen into that trap many times. But not that night. I looked at Frank and said: 'Beauty after age.' The whole room exploded in laughter!"
💡 Key Insights:
🎭 Q&A Highlight: During Q&A, Bella engaged the real Frank sitting in the audience: "Sorry Frank! Beauty after age — I got you back!" The room erupted in laughter again.
🎯 Structure: Warren shared how the AI tool "Lobster" empowers three dimensions: personal life, work, and organizations like GC.
👤 Personal Life: Demonstrated practical examples — organizing children's medicine schedules into interactive checklists, creating word-learning games for his first-grader (who completed third-grade vocabulary through the tool), and receiving daily AI news briefings at 6am.
💼 Work Empowerment: Shared his Douyin (30K+ followers) and WeChat Channel (nearly 10K) content creation workflow powered by Lobster, including automated video planning and content generation.
🏢 Organization (GC Club): Showcased tools built for GC — timer, Ah-counter tracking, meeting minutes generation, agenda automation, poster creation, data analysis dashboards, new member growth tracking, and MBTI/personality assessments based on accumulated meeting data.
💡 Key Insights:
🎮 Interactive Demo: Warren invited Emily to try a personality test mini-game built with Lobster — a desert island survival scenario with AI assistant selection, demonstrating the tool's interactive capabilities.
❓ Q&A Highlights: Members asked about recording workflows, WeChat data export for analysis, voice identification in meeting minutes, whether AI can develop self-awareness, and the difference between Lobster and commercial AI tools. Warren emphasized: "The pen is already in your hands — whether to draw is up to you."
Bai Yu called for special applause for Bella, noting he heard laughter multiple times during the speech. Three strengths: (1) Excellent body language and stage presence — "You acted as an actress, using your body language and smile"; (2) Great audience interaction, especially with Frank — 有台风 (stage presence); (3) Taught the audience what humor is with her materials and story.
Three suggestions: (1) Start with the story directly — "The opening felt a little bit long, just start to tell your story at the beginning"; (2) More stories, less explanation — "They want to know what humor is, but they need to hear more stories. Maybe two or three stories from start to end"; (3) Deliver a clearer key message — "If the key message is related to your story, it would be much better. You are not teaching what humor is — you are showing it through stories."
Nina praised everyone's grammar: "You are all grammar winners!" She noted a common mistake: "You make me impressive" should be "You impress me." But she emphasized: "Grammar isn't the most important thing — content, creativity, and innovation are the core competency of humans."
Good words captured from speakers included: convenient, workflow, bandwidth, double-edged sword, cyber transcendence, data privacy, passionate, empower, innovation, perspective.
Eric brought AI as his assistant to record filler words. He shared an insight: "In the first minute on stage, we feel nervous and use more fillers. In the second and third minutes, our speech becomes more fluent." His advice: "In the first minute, relax, slow down, take your time to think rather than searching for words."
🏆 Filler Word Champion: Eric himself! "I used 10 'uh' in one minute during my TT speech — so I'm the master." He especially praised Helen: "Even in the first nervous minute, she had no filler words — she just paused and took her time. Even during the debate with Frank, she had no fillers, while Frank said 'well, how, um...' Fewer filler words can empower your idea."
Frank delivered a humorous and insightful time report:
Frank's philosophy on timing: "Personally, I think the timer really interrupts your speech flow. That's why I told them not to interrupt — and I'm actually a terrible timer!"
Bing selected several standout performances to evaluate in his limited 5 minutes:
🌟 Cindy (TT Evaluator): Two highlights — (1) She referenced the previous meeting's debate experience, comparing the two debates to show improvement — "a very good way to provide feedback through comparison"; (2) She switched to Chinese for Jerry's evaluation, ensuring both speaker and audience could receive the message well.
🌟 Bai Yu Xun (Speech Evaluator): "You are a very logical person — three strengths, three improvements, arranged in a clear logical line." Bing especially liked how Bai Yu helped Bella identify a key message, noting that a strong key message combined with humor would have even greater audience impact.
🌟 Eric (Ah-Counter): Two highlights — (1) Using AI to calculate filler words; (2) Picking the champion (himself!) — "Finding extreme examples is a very good way to make people remember your message." Suggestion: share more figures for other speakers too.
🌟 Frank (Timer): "Frank is a very quick-minded person who can always create humor effect during feedback." As Bella just mentioned, humor can only be caught — and Frank has this natural ability. His way of linking time observations with speaker moments demonstrated "how the timer's influence connects with the speaker's message — sharing examples and telling stories is always an effective approach."
Sarah shared her own growth story — from being called "抖音女王" (shaking queen) due to stage fright 5 years ago, to now confidently leading the club. She introduced the Toastmasters Pathways system: 6 specialized paths, 5 levels each, ~20 speeches per pathway.
She highlighted GC's unique value: "英语加龙虾是我们的核心竞争力" (English + Lobster = our core competitiveness). The club now has 8 Lobster users, with dashboards for member growth, club data, and communication statistics.
Open House Special: No need for the usual 3 visits + 2 roles requirement. New members today receive welcome gifts, a mentor assignment, and access to GC's exclusive Lobster ecosystem.
Fees: 200 RMB one-time registration + 798 RMB per half-year (450 to TM China HQ + 348 for venue, snacks & operations).
Bella shared how she found GC through 小红书: "I was a deep user — GC was the first to respond to my inquiry, so I just came!" She highlighted that Bing's encouraging nodding during her first speech felt like home — like her father's support. "Every time I come here tired after work, these two hours recharge me — 满血复活!"
She also noted her rapid growth: joined GC for half a year, then placed 2nd in the District Chinese Speech Contest.
"I want to keep a piece of land for myself — a place where I can truly open up, focus on my own growth, listen to others' stories, and let different stones create different ripples in my lake." He noted that his own ceiling is the ceiling of all his roles (father, son, teacher, employee). "If I'm not growing, I can't be a good father, son, or teacher."
Bing shared two factors that kept him in Toastmasters for 20 years: (1) Continuous growth — "My first Table Topic had 38 'uh's in 2 minutes. Now I can control it well. Toastmasters transforms speakers 润物细无声 — silently, gradually." (2) The people — "Toastmasters is a filter. Everyone who stays is someone with desire for growth and expectations for the future. Being with such people fills your life with energy."
Bai Yu is a member of 4 clubs (6 historically) and just earned his DTM (Distinguished Toastmaster). He shared that Toastmasters provides management and leadership practice opportunities far beyond what a typical corporate role offers: "You can manage 10-20 person teams of excellent volunteers — and everyone brings their A-game."
Sarah welcomed everyone to the Open House — a special demo meeting to showcase how GC runs its weekly meetings. She introduced Toastmasters as a global nonprofit organization in 159+ countries with four core values: integrity, respect, service, and excellence.
She highlighted GC's unique features: the oldest surviving club in Beijing, now 23 years old, with labels of 心灵成长、松弛感 and 人生阅历. The club has an IFO officer team (成就他人成长自己), a mentor system, a book club reading its third book《他人的力量》, and has already achieved 卓越俱乐部 status this year.
She reminded everyone of the four taboos — politics, religion, sex, and race — and the tradition of shaking hands with the host.